The Penelope Perspective - MAY 2025

Time truly flies when you're doing what you love! It's hard to believe we're just over two months into my reign as Miss Gay Missouri America. The past month has been a whirlwind—filled with national pageants, performances across the state, the announcement of our preliminary contests, and preparations for what’s sure to be an incredible Pride Month

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One of the standout moments this month was attending the Miss Gay USofA National Pageant, where the radiant Jade Perez was crowned. It was a wonderful experience—surrounded by fierce talent, new friends, and unforgettable memories. I was fortunate to share time with my dear friends Athena Sinclair and Tre Levell, and of course, our reigning Miss Gay America, Ivy Dripp. Being in the company of such powerful artists and trailblazers reminded me of an important truth: the world is what you make it. Keep your foot on the gas, and don’t wait for permission to chase your dreams.

That idea—of showing up boldly and unapologetically — has been at the heart of my reign from day one. My personal mantra, "There’s Always A Seat At The Table," is a call to action for anyone who dreams of something more. Whether you're brand new to the stage or a seasoned entertainer, you deserve to take your seat and claim your space. I was fortunate enough to see that mantra come to life at the Ozark PrideFest Pageant, where I had the honor of judging several first-time competitors. Watching these emerging entertainers step into the spotlight was incredibly moving. Offering feedback and encouragement reminded me that building the future of drag means doing more than talking the talk—it means creating real opportunities, lifting up new voices, and making space at the table for the next generation of leaders.

Outside of the spotlight, I’ve also been working to strike a healthier balance between my duties as Miss Gay Missouri America and my personal life. As someone who thrives on structure and goals, it’s easy to get swept up in the work. But this month, I intentionally made time for rest and connection. I celebrated my partner Hallie’s graduation from Missouri State's photography program, spent quality time with my one-year-old niece, and joined friends in St. Louis to celebrate the birthday of the incomparable Avery C. Lauren. These moments filled my cup and reminded me why this balance is so important—not just for my reign, but for my mental and emotional well-being.

Now, all eyes are on Pride Month—the Gay Super Bowl, if you will! I encourage each of you to get out, show up, and make your voices heard. Pride is more than a celebration—it's a statement, a movement, and a responsibility. Whether you march in a parade, amplify your favorite LGBTQ+ businesses and organizations, or simply show kindness in your everyday interactions—every action matters. We need each other now more than ever.

So as we head into June, let’s lead with love, lift each other up, and remember that unity is our greatest strength.

As always, with love and respect,

Penelope Booze
51st Miss Gay Missouri America